In this episode of the Odd Mom Pod, Brittany chats with Jess, who she met through an online support group, and how their relationship has evolved over the years. This conversation focuses on Jess' transformation from a traditional homemaker to a progressive parent advocating non-traditional thinking styles. Brittany discusses the challenges she faced while discovering her sexuality and gender identity and how her friend Jess has helped her through this journey. Additionally, Jess provides insight into her polyamorous relationships, highlighting how they enhance her personal growth and parenting approach. The discussion also dives into societal and religious pressures, dismantling the traditional model of monogamy, and the importance of being true to oneself, all while raising children in a more informed and accepting world.

Resources:
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy: written by Jessica Fern
Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good: written by Adrienne Maree Brown

00:02 Introduction to the Odd Mom Pod

00:38 Getting to Know Jess: A Friendship Story

01:40 Jess's Childhood and Early Life

02:33 Parenting Perspectives: Crafts, Creativity, and Childhood

04:31 Exploring Sexuality and Gender Identity

05:53 Questioning Religion and Embracing Queerness

07:36 Coming Out and Navigating Relationships

10:56 Parenting as a Queer Individual

17:54 Exploring Polyamory and Navigating Separation

25:42 Exploring Relationship Anarchy

26:24 The Power of Openness in Relationships

28:32 Challenging the Norms of Monogamy

29:28 The Impact of Open Relationships on Friendships

30:29 Redefining Love and Relationships

32:13 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Parenting

32:24 The Upsides of Co-Parenting

38:03 Exploring Polyamory

40:31 Parenting in a Polyamorous Relationship

49:47 The Joy of Self-Discovery and Pleasure Activism

52:45 Conclusion: Embracing the Odd in Parenting