We went over to a friends birthday party which turned out into a counselling session. 4 couples: P&P, W&J, S&Y and Crystal&Light. The birthday girl was sharing her heart out infront of us and crying. The birthday girls husband was sharing his part of the story mostly. In this episode we talk about gender roles, communicating the middle ground, what it means to compromise and when it comes sacrifice. If it is healthy for one to change their personality or character for the other. Or lose themselves in the process and end up unhappier. We came home thag night with so much on our plates and minds that we had to talk it out and just decided to record this impromptu. Hence, i hope you catch the drift of the convo, on how a guy and girl's way of dealing with things are vastly different.

Some take away points would be: its notcjust about doing what your partner wants to do just for the sake checking off a task list, its more of questioning the 'why' behind each request and digging into the reasons of it being asked.

Feelinga of both parties are valid, and we should be able to express ourselves in healthy ways.