Episode 230: The Reason Why Jonny Depp And amber Heard Are The Tip Of The Iceberg. Personality Disorder Part 2
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The reason why Depp and Heard are the tip of the ice-berg Personality DIsorder Part 2 Personality disorders ie those whoes behavior is by nature consistently anti-tribal are this way...
show morePersonality disorders ie those whoes behavior is by nature consistently anti-tribal are this way due to a combination of nature (genetics) and nuture. They can be born this way or they can be affected by trauma of different types. For borderlines and psychopaths sexual trauma is especially important. Anything that fractures or does not affirm self esteem either acutely or chronically risks going onto also affect socialisation and both together will then create an individual who's behavior purely due to who they are is tribe incompatible aka personality disorder. The specific way in which anti tribal behavior reduces internal anxiety defines the type of personality disorder.
Interestingly the American Psychiatric Association talks about oversly sensitive overly reactive children being a risk factor for developing personality disorder and I think this may refer in some cases to genetically overanxious children but more importantly , becausethis is somethign easily addressed it is referring to is ADHD. Parents often cannot cope and often dread dealing with their own children when they have ADHD and this not helped by an increasingly avoidant educational system who need to be strong armed by assertive parents who have read all the rules and guildelines into providing any useful support. The problem is that kids with ADHD are constantly chastised and scolded and have difficulty learning normal socialisation (without making serious compromises such as taking on the role of the charming misichieve maker who people are entertained by) and also get used to failure as schools often reject them or do not give them adequate learning support. Its important for parents to undersatnd they are getting angry with the ADHD not their kid . However it is the child's self esteem and self pereception that is being damaged . This is the most persuasive argument for discussing medication with parents who understandably do not want their children on tablets but equally do not want to harm the fundamental rewquirments for success in life ie self esteem and socialisation ie tribal living and how well you can do within the tribe.
Recently I had to write a report for a 15 year old who had been put by one of the UK's great public schools in the North on a behavioral contract. But he had ADHD. He could not stick to it and was expelled. The school have now lost aginst the parents during formal proceedings and rightly so. The damage to self esteem was incalculable. This directly through discrimination and inderectly through neglect of duty abuse of the child. This is the case if parents and professionals do not properly manage ADHD.
The commonest personaltiy disorder is Obsessive Compulsive characterised by individuals being socially awkward and often withdrawn, liable to routine and ritual and perfectionism and hard work. This is likely to be a misclassifaction or at least a duplicate classifcation for more functional Aspergers Spectrum disorder. Even more simply we are all on the emotion/autistic spectrum with females generally shifted left of centre to the more emotional end and males generally shifted right of centre towards the autistic end. The main mediator is the level of exposure to intrauterine testosterone. It means that a female with Aspergers tendencies is even more of an outlier than a male with Aspergers tendencies as the general female poplulation lies more the left than males. Indeed a right shifted narcissit female is especially toxic to the tribe often exactly because they can fly under the radar but they have most access to and responsiblity for raising chiildren and someone who is self serving and likely to be critical and controlling and unable to teach proper attachement and socilaistion to the kids is going to be very damaging to those kids. Furthermore females tend to be the social centres of tribes so a right shifting narcissist will be especially toxic to the tribe.
The reason personality disorder exists at all without being selected out by natural selection is that it confers a survival advantage. In times of strife famine or war etc the tribe needs an assertive leader able to make cold calculated decisions. Such as Churchill versus Hitler or Trump versus Putin. (Biden is of course a joke and a plant by the higher powers to be manipulated in an attempted Great Reset). Current society and emphasis on careers values hard work and persistence which is a key trait in obsessive compulsive/right shirters. Also right shifters are more resistant to trauma as they lack the normal emotioanl responses. They are able to pragmatically accept what has happened but their main distress is with the consequences and change in routine caused by the trauma . Hence my suggestion is that you will find a high proprotion of right shifters among refugees as the right shifters were able to remain functional enough to leave their coutnry whereas those closer to the population mean were overcome by stress and so less functional and less albe to leave and seek safety.
Society is changing infront of our eyes. Unregulated capitalism and materialism and the destruction of religion morals and ethics and national identities combined with globalisation leading to different cultures being forced into close juxtaposition to one another is leading to increases stress and unhappiness especially in the West which is leading the way in this. Unfortunatley the digital age which selects for binary thinking right shifters who are especially suited to softtware programming has resulted in narcisistic binary thinkers becoming the richest men in the World. The consequence of having intelligent binary thinking narcissists in charge is that they will in the blink of an eye (ie reflexly -hence the personality disorder nature) justify subjugation of the unhappy strife riven population with biometric passports and ultimately computer chipping in a bastardised biblical simile of God creating Man in his image. You will own nothing and be happy is the mantra of the Great Reset.
Since peronalit disorder causes suffering to the indvidual and those around them through being antirbal then the defining criteria are relative to the tribe. If we are all turned into subjugated robotic compliers then those seeking collaborative warm human contact would be considered the anti tribal personality disorders as they would be damaging to the binary thinking tribe. You think this is unlikely? Think again. How about those speaking the truth about COVID and vaccines being cancelled and revilled and subjgated by the media as well as the law? Now we know it was mostly lies and vested interest of large pharma and govenerments defining policy by public opinion which was manipualted by mass media and those controoling them. For instance BIll Gates controls the WHO and has interests in Pfizer and the same entity controlling Pfizer also controlls Thomson Reuters the golbal fact checker which was used by Twitter. The end of society as we know it is happening infront of our eyes.
How are personality disorders treated? Since they are not ill there is no treatment. However some may have the insgiht that if they want to benefit from what society has to offer then they have try and act agaisnt their nature and integrate more functionally. There exist therapeutic communities who mainly follow the method of putting these people on behavioral contracts exactly because they are responblle for themselves. So if they break the rules such as being voilent or self harming or generally being antitribal they are punished by being excluded from the community for a time or discharged alltogether. Some have come to me stressed by the pressure of society for them to be nicer ie less psychopathic or less narcissistic. Basically they are stressed as no one likes them so they are lonely and running out of victims or work is suffering and they want things to go better. My answer is dont try and act against your nature. It causes stress. Be yourself. Be a psychopath openly .It means that people can engage with you on fair terms. They then know what they are dealing with and are less likely to be damaged. Look at Boris Johsnons multiple relationships and multiple children. Look at his superficial charm yet talk to his ex wife and she is excoriating of him. Close prolonged contact with personality disorder can be devasting as they are entirely self serving and therefore destructive .
Indeed the Oxford English dictionary defines ''Evil'' as something wicked and amoral. If you look at amoral it means not moral. If you look up moral it means knowing the difference between good and bad and doing good. If you look up wicked it says something unpleasnat eg an unpleasant wind or something harmful. Therefore by definition in the two golbal classificaiton systems which state personaltiy disroder causes suffering to the individual and those around them lifelong then by their nature they are evil.
How does one respond to a personality disorder? Three ways. The first two require knowledge of the spefic antitribal mechanism they are using ie are they a psychopath, are they a narcisist , or a binary thinking micro controller? Are they an insecure attachment seeking borderline ? Ie you have to know the currency of their internal peace.
Then you apply fear of losing that currency or reward with that currency. The problem is that in order to that consistently and not be stressed in so doing it has to be in your nature it is not for most of us and generally not in the nature of victims seeking advice on how to deal with a personality disroder then fhe first two options are not practical which leaves the 3rd option of geographical separation.
Returning to Depp and Heard. How many witnesses did Depp have give evidence for him? Many. How man did Heard have ? None apart from her sister who clearly was a genetic close match to Heard .
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