If you were raised in some typical community, you will learn that once you divorce people automatically lose respect for you, especially if you are poor. Most divorced women get it worse just because they are women, therefore you get a lot of women who stay in broken marriages and abusive marriages all because they don't want to be labeled loose, or labeled as "that woman who couldn't keep her marriage". It is high time we stop labeling people as failures just because they couldn't keep their marriage. A lot happens in a marriage and sometimes it can get unbearable. A failed marriage does not make one a failure and it is about time we unlearn some things we were taught in the past because they are toxic. What are your thoughts on this?