A post about rules for parents of college students [https://grownandflown.com/parent-college-student-do-not-do/] put us on the defensive. We don't need your stinkin' rules! And anyway, they don't apply to us. We have our reasons. Mentioned: Our rant on the advice "do something that scares you" (no thanks) [https://www.parentingroundaboutpodcast.com/blog/scary-advice].