It takes patience and trust in the Lord and His ways to resist the temptation to act rashly. Many times we feel pressured...to make a move, to resolve an issue, to get to "the bottom of this", to get on with life ! This "pressure" draws confusion. God is NOT the author of this confusion. Recognizing this situation as an attack of the enemy is critical. Calmness, resisting the temptation, binding the spirits, pleading the merits of Jesus' shed blood for us,submitting to the Holy Spirit, walking in His spirit of peace, will bring far better and  more fruitful results. Take a step back and allow the Lord to lead you OUT of the temptation. Acts 19:36 King James Version (KJV) 36 ...., ye ought to be quiet, and to do nothing rashly.