What is your definition of a “good woman”? Would your answer be different if I asked you “what is a good man?” Do you hold yourself to the same standard? If not, your definition of a good woman needs an overhaul. In this episode, Suzette exposes the blind spots of ambition and some of the misinformation that has been passed down from one ill-advised generation to another. Instead of continuing to pander the old definitions of our fore-parents, this age of enlightenment requires us to write a bolder, more robustly authentic definition.

ABOUT ME

This episode is a reach back to 2015, two months after I got married. After having 2 failed marriages and subsequent situationships with unavailable men, I recognized that my ideal of what made me a good woman was not holding up in the revealing light of relationships. If I wanted a real deal good relationship, I was going to have to let go of the old definitions handed down to me from the “strong” women in my life and write a new definition more suited to what I wanted my relationship experience to be. There was a poise and dignity that I wanted to embody but wasn’t taught. Furthermore, even though I lived in a two-parent household, I did not know how to be in a good relationship. So, my 40s were about dismantling the old and erecting new definitions that I could hold myself accountable to.

Because of that, I don’t do fluff in relationships. I get down to the core mental and emotional deficits that chasing other folks’ definitions kept me from addressing. And why, as a life coach and relationship solutionist, I offer those who want to have a greater experience of life and love a proven path to get there.

MENTIONS

Wellness For The Modern Woman, a wellness workshop in Clayton, NC for women who have achieved significant success yet still feel unfulfilled. Wellness Coach Tiffany Matier, owner of Craze Wellness & Creative Studio, and I are teaming up to help them find their missing piece so they can take charge in their lives and flourish in their relationships.

For more information and tickets, go to thewellnesscraze.com, and click on Upcoming Events. (Early Bird pricing is in effect until September 8th).

OTHER WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME

Email: suzette.vearnon@suzettesolutions.com
Website: http://suzettesolutions.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/yourcoachsuzette
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourcoachsuzette

CREDITS

Music by DH The Composer https://linktr.ee/dhthecomposer
Cover Design by Odyssey Administrative Services LLC http://odysseyadministrativeservices.com
Cover Photo from gallery of royalty free photos on Pixteller.com