Discipleship is...
Walking with a disciple in being transformed by the renewing of the mind.
 
7 Role's of the Discipler (Not 12. Misspoke :-) )
Curiosity Leader
Mentor
Teacher
Trainer
Coaching
Modeling
Nurturing

Training - A companion to Modeling
The disciple performs and the Discipler observes.

All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness; - 2 Timothy 3:16 NASB

Yes training! Not just teaching and sending them on their way.

The disciple demonstrates learning. The trainer instructs, corrects and sharpens the disciple in their walk.
• Gains experience.
• A chance to fail.
• A chance to recover.
• An opportunity to grow.

Do not waste time arguing over godless ideas and old wives' tales. Instead, train yourself to be godly. - 1 Timothy 4:7 NLT

All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness. — Hebrews 12:11 NASB

For everyone who partakes only of milk is not accustomed to the word of righteousness, for he is an infant. But solid food is for the mature, who because of practice have their senses trained to discern good and evil. - Hebrews 5:13-14 NASB

Senses | faculty of the mind for perceiving, understanding, judging

=======

Modeling - A companion to Training
The disciple observe the discipler in action, under duress.

The discipler demonstrates the walk.

For I have given you an example, that ye should do as I have done to you. - John 13:15 KJV

"Our father is Abraham!" they declared. "No," Jesus replied, "for if you were really the children of Abraham, you would follow his example. - John 8:39 NLT

Dear brothers and sisters, pattern your lives after mine, and learn from those who follow our example. - Philippians 3:17 NLT

=======

Nurturing
Recover perspective, healing, enforce fortitude, develop resolve.
• Empathy.
• Being present.
• Time spent.
• Lots of listening.
• Providing space to morn, process, think and not think.
• Bringing quietness and clarity.
• Revisit gratitude, love, purpose.
○ Who God is.
○ Who they are in Christ.
○ God's plan for them and those/situations they mourn.
• Revisiting values.
• Waiting patiently for the opportunity to help them look forward.
• Revisit fortitude and resolve.
○ Count the cost.
○ Galvanize your heart.