I spent some time yesterday with author and psychic Deborah Graham. Her new book is based on building a firm shape of love. It begins with getting to know yourself. Many of us have no clear path to that vision. We wake up each day and arrive in a pair of shoes that may or might give you comfort. But are you comfortable in the shell you carry? Getting to know yourself... It's a task for many. But once you allow that inner you to grow outward the true journey begins. But how do you get there?