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Brad and Michaela Draper have what many people call "a unique relationship that others strive to be like". Though they feel their relationship is fairly normal, they also realize they...
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Brad and Michaela Draper have what many people call "a unique relationship that others strive to be like". Though they feel their relationship is fairly normal, they also realize they are different from most other relationships. They found each on the dance floor of a bar, were married 9 months later, were told they were making a massive mistake... here they are 10 years later with two little rug rats. Brad and Michaela are beyond excited to share some of the nuggets they have picked up along the way while curating what many would say is the ultimate power couple. Join them on this journey as they relay a variety of topics to help you create the type relationship you strive for most.
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12 MAR 2025 · Breaking Free from Social Media's Grip on Relationships
Discover how a couple's contrasting approaches to social media - from complete detox to strategic usage - revealed surprising insights about modern relationships. Brad and Michaela Draper candidly explore how digital distractions affect genuine connection and share their journey to finding balance in an increasingly connected world.
The episode challenges popular misconceptions about "perfect" relationships portrayed in media and pornography, offering refreshing perspectives on embracing imperfect moments. Through personal anecdotes, including a revealing Disneyland experience, the Drapers demonstrate how external expectations can derail authentic family experiences.
Key takeaways:
- - The impact of social media detox on productivity and presence
- - Breaking free from unrealistic relationship standards
- - Creating authentic experiences versus chasing idealized moments
- - Managing expectations in family activities
- - Building a relationship that works for you, not social media
Ready to transform your perspective on modern relationships and social media's influence? Tune in to this eye-opening conversation about finding genuine connection in a digital age.Â
Your perfect relationship isn't on Instagram - it's waiting to be built by you.
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5 MAR 2025 · Transform Your Relationship: The Power of Giving Over Taking
Want to revolutionize your relationship? Discover why being a giver rather than a taker could be the game-changer you've been looking for. In this compelling episode of "Choosing Us," hosts Michaela and Brad dive deep into the transformative power of prioritizing your partner's needs and finding joy in making their life better.
They explore crucial insights about:
- Â Shifting focus from what you're not getting to what you can give
- Â Embracing your partner's efforts, even when they're not perfect
- Â The importance of receiving love and help gracefully
- Â How small acts of service can strengthen your bond
- Â Building mutual understanding through open communication
Learn why constantly criticizing your partner's efforts might be sabotaging your relationship, and how practicing empathy can create a more fulfilling partnership. The hosts share personal examples, including bedtime routines and daily gestures, that demonstrate how simple acts of care can make a profound impact.
Ready to transform your relationship through the power of giving? Listen to this episode to discover practical ways to show up for your partner and create a stronger, more loving connection.Â
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26 FEB 2025 · Reigniting the Spark: Why Intimacy Matters More Than You Think
Discover why physical intimacy is the vital force that transforms a relationship from "just roommates" to passionate partners. Best friends Michaela and Brad Draper dive deep into the often-overlooked importance of maintaining a healthy sex life, especially after life's major transitions like parenthood.
The episode explores how hormonal changes and busy schedules can impact libido, but emphasizes that intimacy is about more than just physical gratification – it's about emotional connection and relationship longevity. The Drapers share personal insights on building trust, maintaining vulnerability, and keeping the spark alive through life's various seasons.
Key takeaways include:
- - Prioritizing physical intimacy as essential for relationship health
- - Building self-confidence through kept promises
- - Embracing playfulness and exploration in the bedroom
- - The importance of open communication about desires and needs
Ready to transform your relationship from routine to remarkable? Listen to this candid conversation about keeping the flame of intimacy burning bright in your partnership.
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19 FEB 2025 · The Power of Small Moments: Building Connection Through Physical Touch
Discover how taking just 20 seconds for a meaningful hug or kiss can transform your relationship! In this intimate episode, Michaela and Brad reveal their morning ritual of physical connection and how it sets the tone for their entire day. They share powerful insights about the impact of intentional physical touch and affection in maintaining a strong partnership.
Learn why these small moments of connection matter more than you might think, and how they can:
- Strengthen your emotional bond
- Model healthy relationships for your children
- Bridge the gap between different love languages
- Create lasting intimacy
The hosts emphasize the importance of clear communication about physical needs and discuss practical ways to incorporate more meaningful touch into your daily routine, even during busy times. Whether your love language is physical touch or acts of service, this episode offers valuable strategies for showing up fully for your partner.
Ready to transform your relationship through the power of small, intentional moments? Listen to this episode to discover how these tiny acts of love can create the connection you've been craving.
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12 FEB 2025 · Supporting Your Partner: The Art of Being There Without Fixing Everything
Ever wondered why sometimes your well-intentioned advice falls flat when your partner is struggling? This enlightening episode dives deep into the delicate balance of supporting your spouse through difficult times. Hosts Michaela and Brad share authentic insights about the crucial difference between being a listener and a fixer in relationships.
Learn why validating emotions is more powerful than dismissing them, and discover practical ways to create a safe space for your partner to process their feelings. The conversation explores how different coping mechanisms - from venting to pursuing personal hobbies - play vital roles in emotional well-being.
Key takeaways include:
- How to recognize when your partner needs listening vs. solutions
- - The importance of validating emotions without judgment
- - Why personal hobbies and "me time" are crucial for relationship health
- - Practical ways to support different coping styles
Whether you're navigating a challenging period in your relationship or wanting to strengthen your emotional support skills, this episode offers valuable insights for creating a more understanding and supportive partnership.
Ready to transform how you show up for your partner? Tune in to hear the full conversation.
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5 FEB 2025 · Building Real Love in a World of Highlight Reels
Ever wonder why your relationship doesn't look like the perfect couples on social media? The Drapers get real about the daily work of building authentic relationships beyond the carefully curated posts we see online. In this candid conversation, this married couple shares how they navigate their own relationship challenges while maintaining a strong connection.
They introduce the powerful concept of "blissful dissatisfaction" - finding deep contentment in your current relationship while still growing together. The episode tackles the dangerous trap of comparing your relationship to others' highlight reels and offers practical advice for staying present with your partner.
Key takeaways include:
- The importance of "watering the grass you stand on"
- Choosing happiness through life's changes
- Finding gratitude in everyday moments
- Building authentic connections beyond social media comparisons
Ready to transform your relationship perspective and build something real? This episode offers honest insights and actionable steps for creating your own version of "the greatest relationship." Tune in to hear the full conversation about navigating love in today's digital age.
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29 JAN 2025 · From Blind Date to Beautiful Life: The Minetto's Love Story
Ever wondered if blind dates can lead to lasting love? Sydney and Tyler Minetto's story proves they absolutely can! Despite Sydney's initial skepticism about men and Tyler's packed schedule during their first meeting, their connection was undeniable. Tyler even rescheduled multiple flights just to secure a proper date with Sydney - talk about making an impression!
Now settled in Utah (a place they never imagined living), this dynamic couple juggles four young children while maintaining their spark through creative approaches to disagreement. Their infamous "Minetto Family Debates" on social media showcase how they turn potential conflicts into entertaining discussions, from defining "bonbon" to debating the coolness factor of minivans.
The Minetto's emphasize intentional connection, whether it's putting phones away during car rides or supporting each other's individual growth journeys. Their story demonstrates how embracing differences - from morning routines to musical preferences - can strengthen a relationship rather than harm it.
Ready to be inspired by a real-life love story that proves sometimes the best things in life come from unexpected blind dates? Tune in to hear the full journey of how the Minetto's created the "greatest relationship of their life"!
Key Takeaways
• Sydney's initial reservations about the blind date that blossomed into a loving partnership
• The couple's embrace of the joys and challenges of raising four young children, even documenting their "Minetto Family Debates" on social media
• The importance of supporting each other's individual goals, maintaining personal growth, and prioritizing intentional connection amidst the busyness of family life
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22 JAN 2025 · Finding Balance: The Power of Self-Care in Marriage
Discover how a simple "gym date" and some quiet time can revolutionize your relationship! Join the Drapers as they candidly share their journey of maintaining a strong partnership while juggling life's demands.
Learn why taking strategic breaks - from sneaking away to the bathroom for 10 minutes of peace to planning weekend getaways - isn't just self-indulgence, but a crucial investment in your relationship's health.
This episode dives deep into:
- Managing partner mood swings without taking them personally
- The importance of "brain battery" recharge for women
- How to create space for individual growth within marriage
- Practical strategies for reconnecting with your spouse
- The power of grandparent sleepovers for relationship reset
The Drapers offer refreshingly honest insights about maintaining individuality while strengthening your bond as a couple. Their practical advice ranges from handling overwhelming moments to supporting each other's need for personal space.
Ready to transform your relationship through intentional self-care? Listen to this episode for game-changing strategies that will help you and your partner thrive, both individually and together.
Key Takeaways
• Dealing with a partner's bad mood - it's important not to take it personally and give them space to work through their issues, as their irritability may have nothing to do with you.
• The value of understanding, empathy, and prioritizing your relationship, even amidst the demands of daily life. Ego and self-blame can often mask deeper issues in relationships.
• The importance for women to prioritize self-care and find ways to recharge their "brain battery" when feeling overwhelmed, such as taking 10 minutes of quiet time or making lists to offload mental burden.
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15 JAN 2025 · Did you know hormone imbalances could be silently affecting your mental health?
In this powerful episode of "Choosing Us," the Drapers tackle the critical connection between hormonal health and mental wellbeing, sharing their personal journey of hormone testing and its life-changing results.
The conversation delves into the alarming rise in male suicide rates and the importance of breaking down barriers around mental health discussions. The hosts emphasize how society's current challenges - from economic pressures to social media comparisons - can impact our psychological wellbeing in unprecedented ways.
Key takeaways:
- Regular hormone testing as a proactive approach to mental health
- The importance of authentic check-ins with loved ones
- Practical steps for better health: proper sleep, nutrition, and exercise
- Creating safe spaces for men to express vulnerability
- Moving beyond quick fixes to address root causes
Don't miss this essential conversation about mental health, hormones, and the power of genuine connection. Tune in to discover how small changes in your approach to health could lead to transformative results in your life and relationships.
Listen now to gain valuable insights that could help you or someone you love.
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8 JAN 2025 · Making Your Marriage a Priority: A Love Language Journey
Discover how understanding and speaking your partner's love language can transform your relationship! Join The Drapers as they dive deep into the art of prioritizing your marriage through intentional actions and quality time together.
They share their personal "FFF" philosophy - putting fitness, family, and faith first - and why self-care is crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship. Through candid conversations, they reveal how simple acts like head rubs or dedicated date nights can make a profound impact on your connection.
Learn from Michaela and Brad's decade-long journey of navigating different love languages, from quality time to acts of service, and how they've made their relationship stronger through understanding and adaptation. Their practical tips for budget-friendly date nights and creative ways to show love will inspire you to invest in your own relationship.
Ready to revolutionize your marriage? Tune in to this enlightening episode that will help you discover the importance of making your spouse a top priority and understanding the unique ways they feel loved and appreciated.
Listen now to unlock the secrets of a thriving marriage through the power of love languages!
Key Takeaways
• Prioritizing your spouse over your children is crucial for a healthy relationship and family dynamic.
• Taking care of yourself (fitness, family, faith) should be the highest priority, before even your spouse and children.
• Understanding and communicating your partner's love language is essential for making them feel appreciated and loved.
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Brad and Michaela Draper have what many people call "a unique relationship that others strive to be like". Though they feel their relationship is fairly normal, they also realize they...
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Brad and Michaela Draper have what many people call "a unique relationship that others strive to be like". Though they feel their relationship is fairly normal, they also realize they are different from most other relationships. They found each on the dance floor of a bar, were married 9 months later, were told they were making a massive mistake... here they are 10 years later with two little rug rats. Brad and Michaela are beyond excited to share some of the nuggets they have picked up along the way while curating what many would say is the ultimate power couple. Join them on this journey as they relay a variety of topics to help you create the type relationship you strive for most.
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| Author | Brad Draper |
| Organization | Brad Draper |
| Categories | Self-Improvement |
| Website | - |
| brad@brad-draper.com |
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