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With over 25 years in the BDSM community and the mental health field, I have gained a unique understanding and respect for the alternative lifestyle. As BDSM has become more...
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With over 25 years in the BDSM community and the mental health field, I have gained a unique understanding and respect for the alternative lifestyle.
As BDSM has become more mainstream it is important that people become informed and educated about truth of the BDSM community instead of letting inaccurate books and movies shape minds, opinions, and lifestyles in a way that is both incorrect and unhealthy. Myself and guests, from porn stars to pastors, will dive deep into all sides of the lifestyle to paint an accurate, informed, and unbiased picture of BDSM and the surprising truth behind the psychology of participants.
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As BDSM has become more mainstream it is important that people become informed and educated about truth of the BDSM community instead of letting inaccurate books and movies shape minds, opinions, and lifestyles in a way that is both incorrect and unhealthy. Myself and guests, from porn stars to pastors, will dive deep into all sides of the lifestyle to paint an accurate, informed, and unbiased picture of BDSM and the surprising truth behind the psychology of participants.
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24 MAR 2024 · Recorded: Feb 18th, 2024 / Published: March 24th, 2024
- - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com.
- - In this episode, Mayfair and I are talking about the somewhat controversial topic of not joining or being involved with your local BDSM scene.
- - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
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- Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
- KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
- “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
- - “Top 10 Reasons NOT to Join Your Local Community-S05E23?”
- We realize that all communities have their own ups and downs and overall cultures. We are not saying that all communities have all, some, or any of these issues. We are speaking generally.
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- 10: Bad vibes: Pay attention to your intuition (Ben)
- 9: Unsavory activities: Drugs/drinking (Ben)
- 8: People not taking no for an answer: (Jon)
- 7: Lack of education (Jon)
- 6: A culture of pressuring people to go further than they are comfortable or want. (Ben)
- 6A: Culture of “breaking slaves and subs”
- 5: Lack of education by partner (Daddy’s Princess)
- 4: Partner’s feelings about the safety of your relationship (Daddy’s Princess)
- 3: Predators and the protection of predators by the community
- 2: Relationship issues
- 1: People are crazy
- Important Links:
- Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/522
- National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
- NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:
Kuldrin Entertainment
257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
Alcoa, TN 37701
- - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
- - Pro Producer ($100/month):
- - Master Producer ($50/month):
- - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
- - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie
- - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and Maria
- - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Meg, Astridinchains, littlebear22, and TeaVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)
- - http://bdsmcontracts.org/ Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
- - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
- - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
- - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
- - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:
- Email: mailto:MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
- Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
- Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
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19 MAR 2024 · Recorded: February 4, 2024 / Published: March 19, 2024
- - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com.
- - In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.
- - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
- Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
- KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
- “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
- - “The New Predator Part 3: Histrionic Personality Disorder-S05E22”
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.
- https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9743-histrionic-personality-disorder
- https://www.psychdb.com/personality/histrionic#:~:text=DSM%2D5%20Diagnostic%20Criteria&text=Interaction%20with%20others%20is%20often,to%20draw%20attention%20to%20self
- Histrionic personality disorder (HPD) is a mental health condition marked by intense, unstable emotions and a distorted self-image. The word “histrionic” means “dramatic or theatrical.”
- “5 Signs You Might Be a Drama Queen” by Claire Jack Ph.D.
- Cleveland Clinic
- Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD)
For people with histrionic personality disorder, their self-esteem depends on the approval of others and doesn’t come from a true feeling of self-worth. They have an overwhelming desire to be noticed and often behave dramatically or inappropriately to get attention.People with histrionic personality disorder often don’t realize their behavior and way of thinking may be problematic.
- A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by 5 or more of the following (Diagnosis Criteria):
- Is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention
- Interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior
- Displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions
- Consistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to self
- Has a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail
- Shows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion
- Is suggestible (i.e. - easily influenced by others or circumstances)
- Considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually are
- What are the signs and symptoms of histrionic personality disorder?
- Personality disorders, including histrionic personality disorder, are among the least understood mental health conditions.
- Studies that have been done about histrionic and other personality disorders have identified several factors that may lead to the development of histrionic or other personality disorders:
- Genetics: Histrionic personality disorder tends to run in families, so scientists think there may be a genetic (inherited) link.
- Childhood trauma: Children may cope with trauma, such as child abuse or the death of a family member, that later as an adult may be disruptive or problematic in their life and become part of a personality disorder.
- Parenting styles: Children who experience parenting styles that lack boundaries, are over-indulgent or inconsistent may be more likely to develop histrionic personality disorder. In addition, parents who display dramatic, erratic, volatile or inappropriate sexual behavior put their children at risk for developing this condition. Some researchers think that problems in parent-child relationships lead to the characteristic low self-esteem in people with HPD.
- How is histrionic personality disorder diagnosed?
- Past history.
- Relationships
- Previous work history.
- Reality testing.
- Impulse control.
- Personality continues to evolve throughout child and adolescent development. Because of this, healthcare providers don’t typically diagnose someone with histrionic personality disorder until after the age of 18.
- Personality disorders, including histrionic personality disorder, can be difficult to diagnose since most people with a personality disorder don’t think there’s a problem with their behavior or way of thinking.
- When they do seek help, it’s often due to conditions such as anxiety or depression due to the problems created by their personality disorder, such as divorce or lost relationships, and not the disorder itself.
- When a mental health professional, such as a psychologist or psychiatrist, suspects someone might have histrionic personality disorder, they often ask broad, general questions that won’t create a defensive response or hostile environment. They ask questions that will shed light on:
- Because a person suspected of having histrionic personality disorder may lack awareness of their behaviors, mental health professionals might ask to collect information from the person’s family and friends.
- Mental health providers base a diagnosis of histrionic personality disorder on the criteria for the condition in the American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders.
- To learn about “Management and Treatment, “Prevention”, “Outlook / Prognosis / Complications” visit Cleveland Clinics website:: https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9743-histrionic-personality-disorder
Important Links:
- Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/522
- National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
- NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
- - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
- - Pro Producer ($100/month):
- - Master Producer ($50/month):
- - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
- - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie
- - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, Maria, and Miss Troi
- - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Meg, Astridinchains, littlebear22, and Tea
Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)
- - http://bdsmcontracts.org/ Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
- - http://whippingstripes.com
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10 MAR 2024 · Recorded: January 21, 2024 / Published: March 10, 2024
- - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com.
- - In this episode, we are talking to Oklahoma's own 6'3" Ebony Amazon and Professional Domme, Mistress Mia Darque.
- - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
- Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
- KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
- “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
- - “Professional BDSM Domination: Mistress Mia Darque-S05E21”
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- https://www.justsayred.com/
- Quote: "... if for any reason you were unsatisfied with your D/s experience please feel free to complain to the domme that you chose to scene with, but if this domme was wearing a pretty flogger on her hip and kept asking if she's hurting you, WELL... ya just got your monies worth..." -M.M.D.
- How long?
- Pro only or pro and lifestyle?
- Do you switch?
- Most unusual request?
- Your style of domination?
- What are your thoughts on BDSM education and do you teach?
- Within the lifestyle, what is your passion to talk to others about?
- What advice to give to people asking you how to get into the pro set?
- Do you mentor others? If so, is there a fee?
- What do you have coming up?
Important Links:
- Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/521
- National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
- NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
- - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
- - Pro Producer ($100/month):
- - Master Producer ($50/month):
- - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
- - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie
- - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and Maria
- - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Meg, Astridinchains, littlebear22, and Tea
Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)
- - http://bdsmcontracts.org/ Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
- - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
- - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
- - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
- - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
Contact info:
- Email: mailto:MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
- Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
- Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
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25 FEB 2024 · Recorded: January 7, 2024 / Published:February 25, 2024
- - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com.
- - In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.
- - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
- Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
- KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
- “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
- Disclaimer: Mayfair and I are not medical professionals and we are only giving our interpretation of the information. Because our advice is to talk to a professional, if you choose to make any decisions because of something we say, you are making those decisions against our advised and are solely responsible for all outcomes of your decisions.
- “From a message: How can you call someone with a mental illness a predator?”
- Answer: Thank you for the question, especially an easy one when someone isn’t emotionally attached to the topic. First, because all predators have some degree of mental illness or they wouldn’t prey on people. Second, People with BPD tend to use the diagnosis as an excuse for their behavior. It is an explanation NOT an excuse.
- - “Drama Queens: The New Predator Part 2: Borderline Personality DIsorder-S05E20”
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.
- https://neurodivergentinsights.com/blog/dsm-5-criteria-for-borderline-personality-disorder
- PBD is a personality disorder characterized by a pervasive pattern of instability. More specifically, Borderline Personality Disorder is characterized by instability in relationships, self-image, emotions, and behavior (impulsivity).
- Criteria for diagnosis:
- 1. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment.
- 2. A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.
- 3. Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.
- 4. Impulsivity in at least two potentially self-damaging areas (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating).
- 5. Recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures or threats, or self-mutilating behavior.
- 6. Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and rarely more than a few days).
- 7. Chronic feelings of emptiness.
- 8. Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights).
- 9. Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms.
- PBD is a most commonly a trauma/PTSD based disorder.
- Another cause of BPD is learned behavior from having a parent with BPD or other serious mental health disorder such as bipolar disorder or substance abuse.
- About 70% of diagnosed patients are female. 6.2% female and 5.6% male.
- People with BPD tend to use the diagnosis as an excuse for their behavior. It is an explanation NOT an excuse.
- Relationship push and pull (Hot and cold)
- Views the world in extremes (Black or white thinking)
- Everyone feels they must walk on eggshells around someone with BPD because they are prone to explosiveness.
- They tend to manipulate others
- Common self harming behaviors: cutting, scratching, substance abuse, dangerous sex, dangerous sexual situations, starting verbal and physical altercations,
- Uncommon self harming behaviors: Pulling out their own hair (Trichotillomania)
- Medication can assist with symptoms such as depression and anxiety but do nothing for the behavioral symptoms of the disorder.
- Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) (Recognized as the best treatment for BPD):
- the core principles of DBT – dialectical thinking, mindfulness, emotional regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness – provide a comprehensive framework for helping individuals achieve emotional balance, develop meaningful relationships, and navigate life's challenges with resilience.
- “5 Signs You Might Be a Drama Queen” by Claire Jack Ph.D.
- Borderline Personality DIsorder (BPD):
- What to know about people with BPD:
- Treatment Options:
Dialectical thinking is the ability to view issues from multiple perspectives and to arrive at the most economical and reasonable reconciliation of seemingly contradictory information and postures.
- The Fours Steps of DBT: (Completion takes a minimum of six months to one year and often takes about two years.)
- Stage 1: Foundational DBT Skills: This stage focuses on developing the foundational skills needed for managing emotions, improving relationships, and reducing impulsive behavior.
- Stage 2: Addressing the Issue: This stage focuses on addressing trauma and other underlying issues contributing to emotional dysregulation.
- Stage 3: Greater Sense of Self-Respect: This stage focuses on achieving a greater sense of self-respect and self-esteem and developing a stronger sense of self-identity.
- Stage 4: Meaning & Purpose: This stage focuses on achieving a sense of meaning and purpose in life and developing a greater understanding of spiritual connection.
- Cognative Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- A form of talk therapy that focuses on changing a persons internal dialog.
- Resources:
- Book: “I Hate You-Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality” by Jerold J. Kreisman and Hal Straus https://www.amazon.com/Hate-You-Dont-Leave-Understanding-Personality/dp/0399536213
- Book “Emotional Sobriety: From Relationship Trauma to Resilience and Balance” by Tian Dayton https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Sobriety-Relationship-Resilience-Balance/dp/0757306098
Important Links:
- Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/520
- National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
- NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
- - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
- - Pro Producer ($100/month):
- - Master Producer ($50/month):
- - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
- - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie
- - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti &
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17 FEB 2024 · Recorded: December 17, 2023 / Published: Feb 17, 2024
- - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com.
- - In this first episode of a three part series we are deep diving into the most controversial topic we have address on the podcast: the predatory drama queen.
- - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
- Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
- KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
- “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
- - “Drama Queens: The New Predator Part 1-S05E19”
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.
- is a personality disorder characterized by a pervasive pattern of instability. More specifically, Borderline Personality Disorder is characterized by instability in relationships, self-image, emotions, and behavior (impulsivity).
- Criteria for diagnosis:
- 1. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment.
- 2. A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.
- 3. Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.
- 4. Impulsivity in at least two potentially self-damaging areas (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating).
- 5. Recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures or threats, or self-mutilating behavior.
- 6. Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and rarely more than a few days).
- 7. Chronic feelings of emptiness.
- 8. Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights).
- 9. Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms.
- A pervasive pattern of excessive emotionality and attention seeking, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by 5 (or more) of the following:
- 1. Is uncomfortable in situations in which he or she is not the center of attention
- 2. Interaction with others is often characterized by inappropriate sexually seductive or provocative behavior
- 3. Displays rapidly shifting and shallow expression of emotions
- 4. Consistently uses physical appearance to draw attention to self
- 5. Has a style of speech that is excessively impressionistic and lacking in detail
- 6. Shows self-dramatization, theatricality, and exaggerated expression of emotion
- 7. Is suggestible (i.e. - easily influenced by others or circumstances)
- 8. Considers relationships to be more intimate than they actually are
- “5 Signs You Might Be a Drama Queen” by Claire Jack Ph.D.
- Borderline Personality DIsorder (BPD):
- Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD)
Important Links:
- Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/519
- National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
- NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
- - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
- - Pro Producer ($100/month):
- - Master Producer ($50/month):
- - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
- - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie
- - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and Maria
- - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Meg, Astridinchains, littlebear22, and Tea
Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)
- - http://bdsmcontracts.org/ Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
- - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
- - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
- - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
- - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
Contact info:
- Email: mailto:MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
- Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
- Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
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4 FEB 2024 · Recorded: Nov 3rd, 2023 / Published: Fed 4th, 2024
- - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com.
- - In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.
- - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
- Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
- KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
- “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
- - “Human Furniture: What, Why, and How?-S05E18”
- Human furniture refers to a practice within the BDSM community where a person acts as an object or piece of furniture for another individual's use or pleasure. This practice involves a consensual and negotiated power exchange dynamic where one person willingly takes on the role of being used as an object or piece of furniture by another person or group. The person might be positioned or manipulated to resemble furniture, such as becoming a footstool, table, chair, or any other household item. The submissive might be required to hold a specific pose or position for a certain period, providing physical support or serving as a surface for the dominant person's comfort or convenience.
- Participation in human furniture kink, like many other activities within BDSM or fetish communities, can be motivated by a variety of psychological factors and individual desires. Here are a few potential reasons:
- Power Dynamics: For some, assuming the role of human furniture can be a way to explore power dynamics. Both the person taking on the role of furniture and the person using them may find pleasure in the exchange of power and control.
- Sensory Stimulation: Engaging in this kink might provide intense sensory experiences. For some individuals, being in a static position or role could create physical sensations or mental states that are stimulating or arousing.
- Role-Playing and Fantasy: Like many BDSM activities, human furniture play can involve role-playing and fulfilling specific fantasies. It could be a form of escapism or a way to explore desires that are not easily expressed in everyday life.
- Exploration and Experimentation: Engaging in unconventional or taboo activities like this can be a way for some to explore their own boundaries, desires, and limits within a safe and consensual context.
- Connection and Intimacy: It might also serve as a means of connection and intimacy between partners. Trust and communication are crucial in these scenarios, and the level of intimacy can deepen as participants engage in a vulnerable yet controlled environment.
- Crafting a human furniture scene: Like all scenes, there are eight basic steps to follow to help mitigate risks and increase rewards. A few of the most important things to remember are to communicate thoroughly, go slow, and don’t expect yourself or someone else to be a table for hours on end at the start. Like kneeling, impact play, bondage, and most other types of play, a person needs to build stamina through practice.
- Communication and Consent: Start by discussing interests, desires, and limits with your partner(s). Clearly express what you're comfortable with and what you're interested in exploring. This includes the roles, positions, intensity of the play, medical conditions, medications, and psychological issues and needs.
- Establish Safe Words and Signals: Agree upon a safe word or signal that anyone involved can use to pause or stop the role play if they feel uncomfortable or need a break. Safety and consent are paramount.
- Define Roles and Scenarios: Decide who will take on the role of the human furniture and who will be the user. Discuss the specifics of the scene, including the type of furniture the submissive person will portray and the expectations regarding behavior and interaction.
- Set Up a Safe Space: Choose a safe and comfortable space for the role play. Ensure the area is free of potential hazards, and have any necessary equipment or padding to ensure the comfort and safety of the human furniture.
- Agree on Boundaries and Limits: Clearly establish boundaries and limits for the scene. Discuss what is acceptable and what is not, and ensure everyone involved understands and respects these boundaries.
- Consent to Physical Contact: Define the level of physical contact allowed during the role play. Some scenarios may involve touch or manipulation to position the human furniture, so make sure everyone consents to and is comfortable with the agreed-upon physical contact.
- Engage in the Role Play: Once everything is discussed and agreed upon, start the role play. Maintain open communication throughout the scene and regularly check in with each other to ensure everyone is comfortable and enjoying themselves.
- Aftercare: After the role play, engage in aftercare. This involves providing emotional support, reassurance, and comfort to each other. It's a crucial part of the experience, allowing participants to decompress and reconnect after intense or vulnerable moments.
- It's important to note that the motivations behind participating in human furniture kink, or any other BDSM-related activity, vary widely among individuals. Each person's preferences, desires, and reasons for engaging in such activities can differ significantly, and there is no single explanation that applies to everyone. The key aspect in these scenarios is mutual consent, communication, and respect for boundaries.
- What is human furniture?
- Why?
Important Links:
- Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/518
- National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
- NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
Show Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
- - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
- - Pro Producer ($100/month):
- - Master Producer ($50/month):
- - Executive Producer ($25/month) Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
- - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and Marie
- - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Knot_the_Daddy, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, LilyChaos, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and Maria
- - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Meg, Astridinchains, littlebear22, and Tea
Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)
- - http://bdsmcontracts.org/ Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
- - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
- - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
- - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
- - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
Contact info:
- Email: mailto:MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
- Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
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15 JAN 2024 · Recorded: November 5, 2023 / Published: , 2023
- - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com.
- - In this episode, we are talking to long-time Krypt Producer BuffaloMax about his introduction into BDSM and it saved his marriage and life.
- - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
- 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
- 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
- 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
- - “BDSM Saved my Marriage and Life-S05E17”
- Introduction: Buffalo_Max92 https://fetlife.com/users/12215665
- Ten Licks:
- How long have been into Kink?
- Top, bottom, or switch?
- Relationship Status?
- Favorite Position?
- Favorite Implement?
- Favorite Roleplay?
- Favorite kink or fetish?
- Favorite place for kink?
- Strangest Place you've had sex?
- Something you want to try?
- Marriage?
- Life?
- Advice to others?
Important Links:
- Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/517
- National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
- NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701
- - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
- - Pro Producer ($100/month):
- - Master Producer ($50/month):
- - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
- - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer
- - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22
- - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and Astridinchains
Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)
- - http://bdsmcontracts.org/ Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
- - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
- - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
- - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
- - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
Contact info:
- Email: mailto:MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
- Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
- Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
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31 DEC 2023 · Recorded: November 5, 2023 / Published: Dec 31, 2023
- - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com.
- - In this episode, we are talking about a new study performed by the makers of the KinkD BDSM app that shows 68% of women who try BDSM through online meetups are assaulted.
- - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
- 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
- 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
- 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
- - “Study Reveals 68% Abuse Rate in BDSM-S05E16”
- “68% of women have had a non-consensual experience trying BDSM” by Emilie Lavinia / Wed, 1 November 2023
- https://uk.news.yahoo.com/68-women-had-non-consensual-143800598.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAAEe7ATbsKgO0pty6e4qxTl1ehc0fP1U7B7LOJ6PUXD52kER9UTWkRS3kf4PVHMrYtFQt-FHvg9wiuZB0IGKnunZkdBZO9jH0XhPfyig5KZjhwQ7kADroYigntXg5WYfsi3NCj-PM3G7b42TSk8nHtttimTjq3O1Se9xfuL28E0XJ
- A new piece of research has revealed that a staggeringly high number of women have had a non-consensual sexual experience while experimenting with a partner.
The research, carried out by KinkD – a dating app for BDSM and kink enthusiasts, showed that 68% of female respondents claimed to have had a non-consensual kinky experience with people they’d met online who claimed to be into BDSM.
Of more than 3,000 women who use online dating apps, more than half said they had experienced a violent or degrading act that hadn’t been agreed upon with prior consent.
As BDSM grows in popularity thanks to kinky dating apps, sex clubs and movies like Fifty Shades hitting the mainstream, knowing how to practice kink safely is more important than ever. According to Bedbible, ownership of BDSM equipment, such as ropes and whips, has increased, with 23% having used some form in 2023 compared to only 14% in 2017. So, if you’re planning to allow someone to tie you up because it turns you on, it’s vital that you feel safe.
Kink, arguably, is not something that should be practiced with a stranger as it requires a level of trust and a clear understanding of your partner’s interests, intentions and boundaries. However, the internet is a great place to connect with like-minded people who might be into the same stuff as you or have the same sexual fantasies, and that’s why kinky dating apps work so well.
"In the diverse landscape of alternative relationship dating, these statistics underscore the importance of constant evolution and vigilant safety measures,” says John Martinuk, the founder of KinkD. “Our commitment isn't just to connect individuals with shared interests but to ensure that their interactions remain consensual and secure.
"The kink community is serious about safety, but if you’re new to it, how are you supposed to know who is a safe person to hook up with and who isn’t, and whether someone is being honest about their level of experience?
If you’re looking to broaden your horizons and you’re curious about BDSM or trying new kinks or rough sex, there are several things you need to bear in mind before you dive in. This checklist isn’t just about personal responsibility, it’s about ensuring your partner knows the importance of personal respect, safety and boundaries, and the consequences of ignoring these things too.
Always have a conversation with your partner before a “scene”, especially if you’re meeting them for the first time. Discuss what you would like to happen, step by step and that any deviations from the plan that haven’t been discussed will require consent before they happen.
Agree on a safeword and agree that you’ll use the traffic light system during the session. If something traumatic is happening to you, a common response is to freeze, which makes using your words a challenge. So make sure your partner knows your hand signals too.
It’s also important to state before anything happens that you expect the other person to respect you and your boundaries, and if they don’t or if they intend to hurt you, that person will be responsible. Ask them if they’re aware of the laws around consent and if they’re happy to proceed.
68% is a shocking number and with BDSM and kink on the rise in the bedroom – and why not, it can be very fun when practiced properly – it’s up to everyone taking part to have a conversation about consent before, during and after sex.
If you've been impacted by the information in this article or think you've been the victim of sexual assault or rape, in the U.S. you can contact National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673 if you live in the U.K. contact the 24/7 Rape & Sexual Abuse Support Line 24 hours a day on 0808 500 2222 or visit the website to start a free online chat.
Important Links:
- Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/516
- National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
- NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):
Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon
Make a one-time donation: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PayPal
Snail mail a donation or gift:
Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
Alcoa, TN 37701
- - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
- - Pro Producer ($100/month):
- - Master Producer ($50/month):
- - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
- - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer
- - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22
- - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and Astridinchains
Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)
- - http://bdsmcontracts.org/ Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
- - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
- - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
- - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
- - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
Contact info:
- Email: https://gmail.com
- Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
- Patreon:
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20 DEC 2023 · Recorded: October 15, 2023 / Published: Dec 20, 2023
- - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com.
- - In this episode, we are talking about the hidden sexual fantasies associated with each Zodiac sign.
- - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
- 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
- 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
- 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
- - “Your secret sexual fantasy, according to your zodiac sign”
- By Reda Wigle Published Aug. 30, 2023 / Updated Aug. 30, 2023
- https://nypost.com/2023/08/30/zodiac-signs-secret-sex-fantasy/
- 1: ARIES (March 21 – April 19): Rough sex
- 2: TAURUS (April 20 – May 20): Sex in the woods
- 3: GEMINI (May 21 – June 20): Quickie in public
- 4: CANCER (June 21 – July 22): Rope play
- 5:LEO (July 23 – August 22): Voyeurism
- 6: VIRGO (August 23 – September 22): Workplace fantasy
- 7: LIBRA (September 23 – October 22): BDSMS
- 8: SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21): Erotic asphyxiation
- 9: SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21): Mile High Club
- 10: CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19): Getting paid for sex
- 11: AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18): Alien role play
- 12: PISCES (February 19 – March 20): Orgy
Important Links:
- Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/515
- National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
- NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):
Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon
Make a one-time donation: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PayPal
Snail mail a donation or gift:
Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
Alcoa, TN 37701
- - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
- - Pro Producer ($100/month):
- - Master Producer ($50/month):
- - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
- - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer
- - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22
- - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and Astridinchains
Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)
- - http://bdsmcontracts.org/ Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
- - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
- - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
- - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
- - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
Contact info:
- Email: mailto:MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
- Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
- Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
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10 DEC 2023 · Recorded: September 17, 2023 / Published: , 2023
- - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com.
- - In this episode, we are talking about where trauma and BDSM connect.
- - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)
- 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
- 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
- 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
- - “How to Navigate BDSM and Trauma-S05E14”
- “Navigating The Delicate Yet Dynamic Universe Of BDSM And Kink With Trauma” by Tanisha RK / Sept. 25, 2023
- https://elle.in/navigating-bsdm-and-kink-with-trauma/
1: Understanding Trauma
2: Navigating BDSM
3: Where Kink and Trauma Connect
4: Realizing The Role Kink Plays In Trauma Recovery
Important Links:
- Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/514
- National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
- NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey
- https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
Show Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):
Become a show producer: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/Patreon
Make a one-time donation: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PayPal
Snail mail a donation or gift:
Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
Alcoa, TN 37701
- - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
- - Pro Producer ($100/month):
- - Master Producer ($50/month):
- - Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid
- - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, XxLilyXxX, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, gentleman_sadist, LovelySunshine, Nik and The Plummer
- - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy’s Princess, Kayla, Valfreyja, and littlebear22
- - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, and Astridinchains
Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)
- - http://bdsmcontracts.org/ Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
- - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
- - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
- - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
- - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
Contact info:
- Email: mailto:MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
- Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
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With over 25 years in the BDSM community and the mental health field, I have gained a unique understanding and respect for the alternative lifestyle. As BDSM has become more...
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With over 25 years in the BDSM community and the mental health field, I have gained a unique understanding and respect for the alternative lifestyle.
As BDSM has become more mainstream it is important that people become informed and educated about truth of the BDSM community instead of letting inaccurate books and movies shape minds, opinions, and lifestyles in a way that is both incorrect and unhealthy. Myself and guests, from porn stars to pastors, will dive deep into all sides of the lifestyle to paint an accurate, informed, and unbiased picture of BDSM and the surprising truth behind the psychology of participants.
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As BDSM has become more mainstream it is important that people become informed and educated about truth of the BDSM community instead of letting inaccurate books and movies shape minds, opinions, and lifestyles in a way that is both incorrect and unhealthy. Myself and guests, from porn stars to pastors, will dive deep into all sides of the lifestyle to paint an accurate, informed, and unbiased picture of BDSM and the surprising truth behind the psychology of participants.
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| Author | Kuldrin's Krypt |
| Organization | Kuldrin's Krypt |
| Categories | Sexuality , Education , Health & Fitness |
| Website | kuldrinskrypt.com |
| masterkuldrin@gmail.com |
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