30 JUN 2024 · This week we chat with Danie, a Sapphic Sexologist living in Denver, Colorado. We discuss how shame and guilt from a religous upbringing can continue to live in your body -- and bust the myth of lesbian bed death.  - To learn more about Danie's work visit her website at https://www.sapphicsexologist.com/

23 JUN 2024 · Our friend Ally joins Melisa and Alli to talk about how alcohol is often used as a coping mechanism and tools to get your life back on track.  Books mentioned in this episode include: https://www.amazon.com/This-Naked-Mind-Discover-Happiness/dp/0525537236, https://www.amazon.com/We-Are-Luckiest-Surprising-Magic-ebook/dp/B09PLMYV6K/ref=sr_1_2_sspa?crid=WRM9ITJOB6IB&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.cV-4DcaqXTGiLU6A9TsK9Fiw1-XAorPokgyALVrm-vWqUA6GZ1laY2u9C6yAhtJz2M_KfF0mcc1Eit1-b5QvoEfbyuheipHcPySMiyrXG42i2VDK0bsBqyGgNsn6f7Xu5Sf-9wehFv1PgM0MZ2jwdNVMLkXTI_m3yslKvhQa5KLVX9aEXbwfZmHO2aunQcJjU2u773AR9wY09eeBCUCBb33NobNTpphfm8f0srqymF8.thCTcd7LpMw3dVAmuEojblqe2V1wjO1974AUGoa1ggY&dib_tag=se&keywords=we+are+the+luckiest&qid=1718849931&s=books&sprefix=we+are+the+luckie%2Cstripbooks%2C97&sr=1-2-spons&sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9hdGY&psc=1, https://www.amazon.com/Easy-Way-to-Control-Alcohol-audiobook/dp/B00FGC13IK/ref=sr_1_6?crid=1KG75KL4FSZM9&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.KduEHSH460XTvLbf52Hv0l8HIOOaw-zZbgeKqGKFSTEv_s2opVglffyU9JlpYAxHG2skKomlk1XLKCzlv0tA29HTmDR5i8wjvG5XbPbgq5qDIokrnecS-s1WUG15y4w9ol1OfzSnNc4XB7TyNwSU6BkpFUcQLt4WeTnoNwVRB-dWiqcAiHShOo5vkNSEUdGwsVIlnvMttQ486zReSU-m9FDsjFf78Y3h-roOpcUT0nU.uddTxVIt5JF9hsZp2Ij1OMfJQeRslqAyx-v2klOrI8I&dib_tag=se&keywords=alan+carr+easy+way+to+stop+drinking&qid=1718850072&s=books&sprefix=easy+way+to+drinking%2Cstripbooks%2C88&sr=1-6, and https://www.amazon.com/Sober-Curious-Reset-Change-Drink/dp/B08LM98WTF/ref=sr_1_2?crid=1L2IXMSXQE82G&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.EBDnvvlf7AZcJ1XPJcVjYg0moxBoSFI6_5vudXEQNlxfh62Mw70o2-wkOYDHjQvCWtNJLmHMJ-fjGas_kuP0JCIgAMz3lHOQMRGtmFwQUtqp7FyjLfXBSfW_zuwJOBuoGUtgVGrXY2GwcmzEp2W32w.fTXQhCY7-PntikJdeLG_35MSnF6Zh7HfLnv0QBJUH9c&dib_tag=se&keywords=sober+curious+book&qid=1718850149&s=audible&sprefix=sober+cur%2Caudible%2C75&sr=1-2

16 JUN 2024 · Alli and Melisa take on more unsolicited advice -- offering opinions on if she should tell a date it's your first time kissing another woman to if you should be friends with an ex. 

9 JUN 2024 · Our friend Christine joins the pod to answer listener questions and give our very unprofessional opinions!

2 JUN 2024 · Happy Pride! This week, Melisa and Alli elaborate on some dating icks -- and the biggest ick of them all, not being a grown up and avoiding tough conversations! 

26 MAY 2024 · Alli and Melisa dive into dating icks -- and Melisa shares a list of "icks" that might prompt her to swipe left. 

21 MAY 2024 · Being a mom means your time isn't always your own -- which makes it really tough to find the time and space to focus on your own healing from heartbreak. 

12 MAY 2024 · Michele from the Live Out Loud podcast joins the show to share her views on navigating the dating scene and relationships. And how she's focusing on "dating her friends" and cultivating the relationships with people who are already in her life. 

5 MAY 2024 · This week we address a listener question about how to come out when you're still in a hetero marriage.

28 APR 2024 · Alli and Melisa share some quotes on letting go and how sometimes we cling to things in life that are no longer meant for us.