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Brian and Jamie Hackney, founders of Long Haul Marriage, discuss all things marriage in this raw, real, casual, and fun podcast. Married for 35 years, and having coached over 3000...
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Brian and Jamie Hackney, founders of Long Haul Marriage, discuss all things marriage in this raw, real, casual, and fun podcast. Married for 35 years, and having coached over 3000 couples, they share what they've learned, mostly the hard way, hoping to encourage couples, giving them tools that will strengthen their relationship, so they can be in it for the long haul!
To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage
Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.
To donate to LHM: https://longhaulmarriage.betterworld.org
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To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage
Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.
To donate to LHM: https://longhaulmarriage.betterworld.org
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21 APR 2025 · In this episode, fresh off of a walk listening to one of his favorite podcasts, The Telepathy Tapes, Brian engages Jamie in a conversation about the concept of "finding love" (the goal of our modern dating apps), versus Making Love...choosing to love, deciding to love, expressing love, even when you don't feel like it. They discuss how many confuse infatuation and novelty for love, and the more nuanced, difficult topic of parsing the goodness of "self-love" against taking it to an extreme, which looks more like selfishness, and self-protection. They knew to tread lightly as they totally respect people learning to love themselves, but also know that if we're not careful, we can lose the sacrificial aspect of love that enables us to forgive, give grace, and live in a fulfilling marriage that will last for the long haul.
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A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit http://longhaulmarriage.org, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.
For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.
To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.
Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.
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14 APR 2025 · Fresh off her women's retreat with sister non-profit, Beautiful Ashes Ministries (Beth Shuey), Jamie shares about attachment styles, and how, no matter what cards we were dealt from childhood, we are offered an invitation to grow forward from there. She and Brian share some client questions around transformation and change, and Jamie gives some practical advice on implementing small tweaks that can majorly change your life! As promised, a resource she mentions is the book, Try Softer, by Aundi Kolber, MA, LPC, and of course, Beautiful Ashes. You can find them at beautifulashesministries.org.
We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast.Â
A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit http://longhaulmarriage.org, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.
For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.
To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.
Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.
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7 APR 2025 · Join the conversation with some of Brian and Jamie's dearest friends, Blake and Adrina Mabry, as they discuss some of the challenges we all face as parents these days. In this candid conversation, you won't hear anyone claiming to be an expert, rather how it takes a village, and how valuable it is to have a mentor couple in your life...a couple that might be a little further down the road from you who can encourage you, and can empower you to parent on purpose, with bold intentionality!
A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit http://longhaulmarriage.org, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.
For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.
To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.
Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.
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31 MAR 2025 · In this week's episode, Brian and Jamie (fully recovered) talk about the amazing time they had down in South Texas, hosting their first marriage reconciliation mediation Intensive, and some major take-aways from that. (Review by couple coming soon!!). They go on to share some of the upcoming interviews they will be showcasing on the podcast, including a few parenting episodes, one with Blake and Adrina Mabry, who have one young adult son, and 2 highschoolers, and another one with their own adult children, Chandler (31), Christian (29), and Carson (24). They will also be doing episodes on the top 5 most frequently googled marriage questions. Don't miss these!!!
A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit http://longhaulmarriage.org, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.
For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.
To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.
Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.
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24 MAR 2025 · Disclaimer right up front - Brian felt horrible, and was literally about to hurl as they recorded this podcast - our apologies that he was off his game. Brian and Jamie did the best they could do hit the highlights (quickly) of their recent Lucky In Love Workshop at Justin Coffee Co. It was a great time, reminding us all that love has nothing to do with luck, and that it is a daily choice...choosing to be curious about your spouse/partner, learning to express love to them in intentional ways, keeping love fresh and exciting...because, after all, we are all in it for the long haul!
A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit http://longhaulmarriage.org, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.
For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.
To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.
Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.
Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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17 MAR 2025 · March 17th!! Known to almost everyone as St. Patrick's Day!! But to Brian and Jamie, it will forever be known, remembered, and celebrated, as the day that Corban went home!! Listen as they discuss how the passing of their 2 year old son, Corban, affected them then, and now! Hopefully, your heart will be touched as they discuss openly and vulnerably about grief, and what walking through intense pain has taught them, and how they believe God has used it for their good!
A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit http://longhaulmarriage.org, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.
For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.
To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.
Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.
Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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10 MAR 2025 · Join Brian and Jamie as they briefly discuss their current relationships with their adult children, and how they love to hang out with them and their friends. They discuss the temptation for parents to over-function, and to "impose" their wills onto their children when they're becoming young adults, needing to figure things out for themselves - meaning that they will inevitably make mistakes that we parents desperately want them to avoid - but how detrimental that can be, many times leading to resentment. They share how "backing off" a litte, interjecting their opinions (and yes, wisdom and experience) only when asked is the thing that will draw those adult kids into a loving, friendship that will last a lifetime. Be listening for our special guest, princess RuRu.
A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit http://longhaulmarriage.org, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.
For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.
To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.
Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.
Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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3 MAR 2025 · In this week's episode, Brian and Jamie interview their new friends, Brandon and Lindsey Charles, of Bentonville Arkansas. They talk about how they met at the XO Marriage Mediation Intensive Certification Training, and the way they became fast friends. Brandon and Lindsey share their testimony of having become hopeless in their marriage, believing it was over, until a friend suggested that they reach out for help through a mediation intensive. Not only did the mediation save their marriage, but now, Lindsey and Brandon are passionate about spreading the word about the process that helped them, and are now certified Marriage Mediator Intensivists!! (We apologize for the audio, as it was recorded on a zoom call. If you, or anyone you know could benefit from a reconciliation mediation intensive, please reach out to us. We hope you are inspired by today's episode...Thank you for listening.)
A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit http://longhaulmarriage.org, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.
For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.
To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.
Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.
Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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24 FEB 2025 · Lucky in Love Event referenced in today's episode - 3/22/25 at Justin Coffee in Texas, from 5-7pm. Registration opens on 2/24 at Justin Coffee and Trading Co webiste. In today's episode, Brian and Jamie share how much fun their Love and Latte event was in Justin, TX. Then, they get into how important it is to show priority to our spouse by giving them undivided attention, listening to them, and making sure they know they are your "number 1." They talk about one of the biggest distractions in our culture, and in our relationships - "that damn phone." (Jamie asks you to excuse Brian's horrible language...). We hope you guys will take time this week to put the phone down, look your partner in the eye, and make sure they know you value them above all else!
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A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit http://longhaulmarriage.org, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.
For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.
To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.
Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.
Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
Transcribed
17 FEB 2025 · In today's episode, Brian and Jamie discuss their top 5 take-aways from the annual XO Marriage Conference they attended in the DFW area on Valentine weekend. From a variety of doctors, clinicials, psychologists, pastors, and marriage experts, they loved the way that every single speaker/presenter normalized all of the issues that we ALL go through. They discuss the Passion, Intimacy, Commitment triangle, the inverted bell curve of marital satisfaction over time, the importance of hormones in everything, especially libido health, and the "mental load" that many women report as being the number one sex killer in their marriage. They end with how much they enjoyed the conference, and the awareness it brings to the important work they do, and how thankful Brian is that during the vow renewal ceremony at the end, Jamie said yes!!! Whew!
A huge thank you to our supporters! As a nonprofit organization, we rely on the generosity of our listeners, so if you have been positively impacted by this podcast or our ministry, would you consider supporting Long Haul Marriage with a tax deductible donation? To give, just visit http://longhaulmarriage.org, and hit the donate button in the top right corner. Thank you so much for considering, and make sure to like, subscribe, and share this podcast with all your friends.
For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.
To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.
Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.
Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
Brian and Jamie Hackney, founders of Long Haul Marriage, discuss all things marriage in this raw, real, casual, and fun podcast. Married for 35 years, and having coached over 3000...
show more
Brian and Jamie Hackney, founders of Long Haul Marriage, discuss all things marriage in this raw, real, casual, and fun podcast. Married for 35 years, and having coached over 3000 couples, they share what they've learned, mostly the hard way, hoping to encourage couples, giving them tools that will strengthen their relationship, so they can be in it for the long haul!
To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage
Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.
To donate to LHM: https://longhaulmarriage.betterworld.org
show less
To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage
Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.
To donate to LHM: https://longhaulmarriage.betterworld.org
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| Author | Brian Hackney |
| Organization | Brian Hackney |
| Categories | Relationships , Non-Profit , Christianity |
| Website | - |
| brian@longhaulmarriage.org |
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