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Igniting your internal strength and ambition. I provide tips and tricks from my personal experiences to educate, prepare and guide you through your journey in life. Things don't always go...
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Igniting your internal strength and ambition. I provide tips and tricks from my personal experiences to educate, prepare and guide you through your journey in life. Things don't always go as planned but if you are mentally prepared you have no choice but to succeed and achieve. Let me help you become a better version of yourself.
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13 JAN 2019 · No more excuses work on inner transformation. Change your thought process remove emotion based moves. Think strategically and stand up for yourself to achieve your goals. Remember you deserve it!
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31 DEC 2018 · Building a better you through your life experiences. Take your past and learn from your mistakes. Grow, achieve and believe for it is already yours. You just have to do the work.
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000:00:00.380 --> 00:00:04.680Welcome everybody. You are listening to reflect to redeem episode 101.
100:00:05.040 --> 00:00:12.163Why help you reflect to redeem your life. I'm your host Mentor Mel. And today's episode be something that everyone can
200:00:12.223 --> 00:00:14.940work on no matter the age or economic status.
300:00:15.260 --> 00:00:17.360And that is developing a better you.
400:00:26.280 --> 00:00:28.080So I was talking to a friend today.
500:00:29.000 --> 00:00:30.000and I realize that
600:00:31.520 --> 00:00:34.120What you truly believe?
700:00:34.920 --> 00:00:35.520you are
800:00:36.700 --> 00:00:40.880for instance if I believe
900:00:40.920 --> 00:00:43.020That and I mean not just I say.
1000:00:43.600 --> 00:00:46.300You know, I believe it. No, we are talking like
1100:00:46.820 --> 00:00:48.220It is in your soul.
1200:00:49.440 --> 00:00:50.540It is in your being.
1300:00:51.120 --> 00:00:52.720It is in you walk.
1400:00:53.240 --> 00:00:55.140The way you talk how you present yourself?
1500:00:55.900 --> 00:00:56.500all of these things
1600:00:57.940 --> 00:00:58.640when you
1700:00:59.240 --> 00:01:00.140Believe it.
1800:01:00.780 --> 00:01:03.980You can achieve it when you especially if you write it down.
1900:01:05.300 --> 00:01:06.900You write it down. You are just
2000:01:07.860 --> 00:01:11.560Signing your fate. This is for me. This is mine.
2100:01:12.340 --> 00:01:13.040One of my friends
2200:01:15.160 --> 00:01:16.560Really got in on her.
2300:01:16.960 --> 00:01:17.660today because
2400:01:18.860 --> 00:01:20.360I know what she can do.
2500:01:20.940 --> 00:01:22.340and I know what she's been doing.
2600:01:23.700 --> 00:01:25.500After this conversation I had with her today.
2700:01:27.380 --> 00:01:29.180She has the potential.
2800:01:30.100 --> 00:01:30.800to be very
2900:01:32.440 --> 00:01:33.940Very good. She's smart.
3000:01:34.980 --> 00:01:35.980She's smarter than I am.
3100:01:38.260 --> 00:01:42.660She can do it. but when you let others
3200:01:42.900 --> 00:01:43.700determine your worth
3300:01:44.800 --> 00:01:45.500determine
3400:01:46.180 --> 00:01:49.580What you can do what they feel you should have.
3500:01:50.400 --> 00:01:51.600Why you should have that?
3600:01:53.460 --> 00:01:54.860If you let them dictate.
3700:01:55.920 --> 00:01:56.520That On You
3800:01:58.440 --> 00:02:01.440When you let them dictate that on you then you become that.
3900:02:01.980 --> 00:02:04.780You listen, people will forever always.
4000:02:06.040 --> 00:02:10.540and for always have their opinion of you once you start believing that
4100:02:11.180 --> 00:02:12.480Is when you start to run into trouble.
4200:02:13.960 --> 00:02:15.160Especially if it's negative.
4300:02:16.080 --> 00:02:16.580like I
4400:02:18.980 --> 00:02:19.680Make it a point.
4500:02:21.920 --> 00:02:26.620To look at the better of a situation regardless of what it is. You don't get this job. Well
4600:02:27.660 --> 00:02:28.760What are ways you can better yourself?
4700:02:30.300 --> 00:02:32.600From this interview to the next interview.
4800:02:33.760 --> 00:02:35.160Become more technically sound.
4900:02:35.760 --> 00:02:36.560How do you do that?
5000:02:38.180 --> 00:02:39.880Do you touch things that?
5100:02:42.960 --> 00:02:48.360Especially the things that they questioned you on do you now go back and your notes? Okay. Let me write that down. I will.
5200:02:48.360 --> 00:02:50.520
5300:02:50.520 --> 00:02:51.120Do that.
5400:02:52.020 --> 00:02:55.220Next time I'll do some research on that and continue on.
5500:02:56.300 --> 00:02:59.000What are you going to do from the past time?
5600:03:00.860 --> 00:03:04.360To the current to make it better door to the Future to make it better.
5700:03:05.520 --> 00:03:07.820Especially if you did not get what you were searching for.
5800:03:09.720 --> 00:03:11.920a lot of times people get discouraged
5900:03:13.760 --> 00:03:21.380What type of great thing was achieved without actually doing the work. How do you you can't become the greatest player
6000:03:21.445 --> 00:03:26.160alive without actually getting your ass beat by somebody like you have to
6100:03:26.460 --> 00:03:27.060at that point
6200:03:28.600 --> 00:03:30.800You have to be disgusted.
6300:03:31.180 --> 00:03:31.880with loss
6400:03:32.580 --> 00:03:36.380To where you will do you do the work to prevent it from happening.
6500:03:38.120 --> 00:03:40.620Kobe Bryant Francis this man
6600:03:43.240 --> 00:03:52.237Have you some examples before Kobe Bryant rehearses rehearses rehearses his moves before even a game anywhere near a
6700:03:52.315 --> 00:03:55.340practice in or near a game. He himself.
6800:03:56.220 --> 00:03:57.120muscle memory
6900:03:58.600 --> 00:04:00.000greatest player
7000:04:01.460 --> 00:04:03.060to play whatever instrument
7100:04:03.440 --> 00:04:05.640When I tell you I play that you miss before.
7200:04:06.380 --> 00:04:12.080When I tell you when you play you have these runs that you got to like go through and you know, it's tough.
7300:04:12.680 --> 00:04:19.580What are you do you practice it over and over and over because at some point in time your fingers will now remember?
7400:04:20.380 --> 00:04:24.680That run without a problem. You will master that run.
7500:04:25.620 --> 00:04:28.320remember in a band marching band
7600:04:29.900 --> 00:04:31.500There was like 20 clarinet.
7700:04:33.920 --> 00:04:36.120Mind you I wasn't the best.
7800:04:36.780 --> 00:04:43.889When it came to play the clarinet, however, I can March my ass off. I was a great marcher. So when it came time in the
7900:04:43.949 --> 00:04:46.480music for there to be a good run together.
8000:04:47.760 --> 00:04:51.660My marching hey down.
8100:04:52.200 --> 00:04:53.800but now the sound
8200:04:54.280 --> 00:05:01.126We're trying to display the sounds of the Audis. They can't hear us. You know, why because there's only two people that
8300:05:01.184 --> 00:05:02.680can actually play The Run.
8400:05:03.400 --> 00:05:10.093What do I have to do to become on the level of the two people that can actually play actually practices thing to wear.
8500:05:10.150 --> 00:05:13.100This is now a not a choke moment, but oh I got this.
8600:05:14.920 --> 00:05:18.020That's how you have to view whatever struggle.
8700:05:18.940 --> 00:05:26.140That you are dealing with. Interviews now I'm solid like I'm not going to say I'm the best person ever. However.
8800:05:26.300 --> 00:05:28.700I like conversing with people. I like talking to people.
8900:05:31.400 --> 00:05:37.900Just so happens. I have to sell myself. I'm not a salesperson by any means. However, I do know my stuff.
9000:05:38.500 --> 00:05:40.000I'm not the best at it.
9100:05:40.460 --> 00:05:43.660I'm pretty damn good in the best part about me is.
9200:05:45.600 --> 00:05:47.500Where I am working on something.
9300:05:48.640 --> 00:05:55.102That leaves room for growth. I'm not saying I'm the best. So now I'm not but I'm not above learning this little small
9400:05:55.157 --> 00:05:58.140thing. I have now. I'm at a point where yes, I'm good.
9500:05:58.960 --> 00:05:59.860I could be great.
9600:06:00.640 --> 00:06:04.240are there resources that allow me to learn even more so
9700:06:05.660 --> 00:06:07.160making yourself
9800:06:08.000 --> 00:06:10.700The best you can be requires repetition.
9900:06:11.140 --> 00:06:11.640work
10000:06:13.080 --> 00:06:14.980You might cry I cried.
10100:06:15.700 --> 00:06:18.100Just a termination.
10200:06:19.220 --> 00:06:19.820Make it.
10300:06:22.100 --> 00:06:29.200Have fun as creepy as I say have fun in the process of becoming a better you nobody else can do it.
10400:06:31.100 --> 00:06:33.800Everybody got the statue on what they think you should be.
10500:06:34.340 --> 00:06:34.640or
10600:06:35.300 --> 00:06:39.800How far you should go? However, you start again if you start to believe those things.
10700:06:40.860 --> 00:06:45.560You won't get as far as you can go with my friend. She's believed all these other people and I'm like
10800:06:46.660 --> 00:06:51.060What are you doing? You've been this position one position for 4 years.
10900:06:51.420 --> 00:06:52.720Did you have not?
11000:06:54.280 --> 00:07:00.476You've been overlooked and I when you say Overlook because it requires you to actually put for put your foot forward to do
11100:07:00.527 --> 00:07:00.680it.
11200:07:02.380 --> 00:07:08.280She was comfortable just complacency that all why didn't deserve it. Who says that you don't deserve it.
11300:07:09.560 --> 00:07:14.660Who told you that for you to solidify and validate that?
11400:07:15.520 --> 00:07:19.120Actual statement I give that statement no life because you know, why?
11500:07:20.100 --> 00:07:21.300If I don't deserve it.
11600:07:22.020 --> 00:07:24.920Now I'm going to work for it when it does come up again. I got it.
11700:07:28.560 --> 00:07:29.360When you sit back.
11800:07:32.440 --> 00:07:33.740When you sit back.
11900:07:35.040 --> 00:07:40.688Be prepared for other people to step forward and move fast you like they're going to go ahead and take it. They're not
12000:07:40.736 --> 00:07:46.479waiting for you to be like what she finally got it. Okay now is give her the position No they want you to earn it. They
12100:07:46.527 --> 00:07:50.740want you to appreciate it. They want you to actually they want to feel that you will do.
12200:07:51.260 --> 00:07:58.208Your utmost best in that position like they view you in the position that you're working in and they see how complacent
12300:07:58.267 --> 00:07:59.260you are. How just
12400:07:59.560 --> 00:08:01.860Not involved you are that stuff.
12500:08:04.200 --> 00:08:09.891Is what they see, so of course
Igniting your internal strength and ambition. I provide tips and tricks from my personal experiences to educate, prepare and guide you through your journey in life. Things don't always go...
show more
Igniting your internal strength and ambition. I provide tips and tricks from my personal experiences to educate, prepare and guide you through your journey in life. Things don't always go as planned but if you are mentally prepared you have no choice but to succeed and achieve. Let me help you become a better version of yourself.
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