2 JUL 2024 · They will go along and pretend to be whatever you tell them that you want. Be careful of what you say, because people are known to become what you tell them you're seeking. They will play the role until they get you, after that, they will begin to be who they really are. If you're able to see the signs and red flags, you'll be able to see through their manipulating ways. Unfortunately, due to unhealed hearts and minds, most people can't see the truth because they're too busy chasing and seeking after their wants and desires. They only accept what's in their faces when they realize that they're in unhealthy and unhappy relationships. People desperately seek love when they have no clue what love is about. Most people don't even love self. It's one of the main reasons people can't see the truth!

29 JUN 2024 · Most people can't see the truth about the person they want to be with or is with, because they're blind by their own feelings, wants, and desires. They can't see the red flags and signs, because they're too wrapped up in self. They're in denial about what is actually happening in the relationship because they tend to make everything about self. People are caught up in their own wants, desires, and feelings. Many are being mistreated but they won't accept it because they hope the person will change. They do whatever they think is possible to try to make the person happy, thinking it will make him or her love them and want to be with them. It doesn't! Unhealed hearts and minds equals to brokenness, which causes insecurities of different levels and is why many seek love, etc., in others when they don't even love self. These types of people allow and accept things they shouldn't.

25 JUN 2024 · Many of you make everything a battle, when it's not even a fight! Most people have unhealed hearts and minds, because they aren't allowing healing to take place and we're all seeing the affects. Even when people try to bring drama or when life throws curveballs, it is still up to you, as to how you allow it to affect your life. It is all depending on the mindset you have.  If you continue to be prisoners to your own mindset, just know, you're the only one with the key!

22 JUN 2024 · Most people never had true love in the first place, but they continued on with their relationships, knowing something is/was wrong. Then, they wonder why they've grown apart. It's because you never were together in the way it takes for any healthy relationship to last. You never had a solid foundation. Being together for years doesn't mean the relationship is growing. People get comfortable and complacent out of insecurities to include fear and because of it, they stay in relationships they no longer want with no love, intimacy, communication, affection, etc. Real love lasts. Relationships with true love grows and flourishes as they get older, they don't grow apart. Most people start out chasing to satisfy their lust in one way or another (desires for sex, money, possessions, love, etc), and because of it the majority of the relationships all around the world are unhealthy..

18 JUN 2024 · Many people lead unhappy and unhealthy lives, because of the anger they choose to hold on to, as if there's a benefit to holding on to it. By choosing to hold on, it means you aren't allowing yourself to let it go. Many people are walking time bombs, when they don't have to be. They're comfortable with the old familiar, despite the trouble it brings into their lives. Uncontrolled anger is ugly and it has cost people their freedom and/or their lives. When you can't control your anger it means you're controlled by your anger, because it is what you've given power to in your life. Angry people destroy their own lives.

15 JUN 2024 · I believe in a strong attraction. In a true connection, you should have a physical attraction, but it should mostly be a mental connection, that can lead to love. True love, takes real love, and getting to know one another, and a building a strong / solid foundation. If it's based solely on physical (looks, sex) or possessions (money, titles, positions, things, children, etc.), it more than likely, won't be a happy relationship. Most people are looking for happiness through love (someone) and through things, only to find it doesn't make them happy. Many people are in relationships thinking it's love, when it's not love at all.

11 JUN 2024 · Negativity can lead to disaster and self destruction. When you give power to your thoughts, you can lose control. Many people open themselves up to the darkness and it eventually engulfs them. It's very sad, that people don't try to change. Instead, they keep fueling their negative thoughts, succumb, and then are taken by the negativity. It's NOT love at all, in no way! These people have no clue what love is, and when they lose focus, they lose control and get to that point of no return. It's all immaturity, negative, and senseless.

4 JUN 2024 · Self-inflicted because most people set themselves up. People hold on to negativity and do not embrace positive change. Most people tend to waddle in their woes, instead of trying to heal and let go of them. It's all self-inflicted because people are prisoners to their own mindsets. You give power to people and things only to end up hurt. People are seeking, running, and chasing after things or people, only to end up hurt by their own doings. Meaning, you set yourself up for the let down, headaches, and heartaches. It's all in the mindset. Our mindsets are formed from trauma or bad experiences and instead of allowing self to heal, people go through life dragging all of their past pains, which continues to affect how they think, feel, and act. You can smile and fake your way through your pain, but is sure won't make it go away. Change is only accomplished by you! Forgive, love yourself, and move on.

1 JUN 2024 · We get red flags and signs all of the time. In relationships, when you ignore or deny the red flags and signs that are presented, you'll undoubtedly suffer the consequences. People must learn to look beyond their hearts, wants, desires, and feelings, to what is in their faces. I don't care how you think you want someone, it doesn't mean they are any good for you! Red flags and signs don't ever lie!

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