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Sniffies’ Cruising Confessions is back for a third season — and this time, we’re getting very, very intimate. Season 3 finds our hosts Gabe Gonzalez and Chris Patterson-Rosso chopping it...
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Sniffies’ Cruising Confessions is back for a third season — and this time, we’re getting very, very intimate. Season 3 finds our hosts Gabe Gonzalez and Chris Patterson-Rosso chopping it up with their favorite queer comedians, cruising experts, porn stars and pastors, sharing personal stories and practical sex advice in conversations that are equal parts hilarious, heartfelt, and hot. This season, Gabe and Chris tackle timely topics like AI, religious homophobia, disability and access, trans and non-binary approaches to cruising and sex, as well as tips for cruising smart in a shifting political landscape. Plus, the wildest, wettest, weirdest cruising confessions you’ve ever heard, from guests like Ryheim Shabazz, Jay Jurden, James Tom, Brandon Kyle Goodman, Leo Herrera, and of course, our listeners. Think you can squeeze in a third season? Just push play.
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4 DEC 2025 · Sammy Sins’ mom developed Parkinson’s Disease when they were still very young. But the lessons Sammy learned taking care of her were crucial to their job as a sex worker and content creator years later. In this episode, Chris and Gabe sit down with Sammy to talk about some of these unique discoveries, and the links between sex work, caregiving, and authenticity. Plus, how Sammy feels about code-switching as a non-binary creator, the emotional toll of churning out content, and how PrEP and DoxyPEP kept them safe while touring their K-Pop Dance party BIAS through Asia.
Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: http://cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: http://sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: http://instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: http://x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: http://tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: http://instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: http://instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife Guests featured in this episode: Sammy Sins: http://instagram.com/sammysinsss/See https://omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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26 NOV 2025 · The first time Alex Espinoza got cruised, he felt as if a “mutant power” had been awakened inside him. This new internal radar helped him find secret sex spaces where he uncovered another hidden strength: his dick gave him power over men who might have otherwise rejected a queer Latino man with a disability. Using his special gifts, Alex was able to build his self-confidence and dispel the feelings of shame he says are common for queer people from immigrant families. It also gave him plenty of material for his hit 2019 book “Cruising: An Intimate History of a Radical Pastime”. In this episode, Alex teaches Gabe, Chris, and our listeners what he’s learned from a lifetime of cruising, and offers practical tips for queer cruisers of color and queer cruisers with disabilities. School is now in session. It’s time for CRUISING 301.
Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: http://cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: http://sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: http://instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: http://x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: http://tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: http://instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: http://instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife
Guests featured in this episode: Alex Espinoza: http://instagram.com/ae_espinozaSee https://omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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20 NOV 2025 · In 2019, Rhyheim Shabazz was just another horny LA slut having orgies on the regular. But when he started filming those orgies, the expressions on his bottoms’ faces were unlike anything he’d seen in porn. Rhyheim channelled that realization into a wildly successful career as an actor and director in the gay porn industry, and launched his own hit studio VOYR in 2023. In this episode, Rhyheim talks to Gabe and Chris about his stunning career trajectory, Brazilian boys, and yes, Chris’s ass. He also offers tips and tricks for aspiring content creators looking to follow in his footsteps.
Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: http://cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: http://sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: http://instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: http://x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: http://tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: http://instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: http://instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife Guests featured in this episode: https://www.instagram.com/r.h.y.h.e.i.m/See https://omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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13 NOV 2025 · Comedian James Tom spent years identifying as a lesbian enby, but it took a Fire Island orgy and a twink in a Versace speedo to help him realize he was actually a gay guy. James has been mining his experiences for hilarious stand-up material ever since. In this episode, James stops by to tell Gabe and Chris side-splitting stories of sexual aha moments and misadventures alike. He also offers tons of helpful advice to trans and cis queers who “just wanna fuck” -- including Chris and Gabe! Want to know what cis guys should absolutely NOT say when hooking up with trans guys? This episode’s for you! Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: http://cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: http://sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: http://instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: http://x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: http://tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: http://instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: http://instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife Guests featured in this episode: James Tom: https://www.instagram.com/jamestomxo/See https://omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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6 NOV 2025 · Fisting used to be a niche fetish practiced by kinksters in dungeons, but today “Fisting is the It Girl” according to writer and expert fister Alexander Cheves. In this deep dive, Alex explains how the availability of fisting content on Twitter has led to a surge of interest from younger queer folks in recent years. But there’s a lot that first time fist fuckers need to know about how to prepare and train for play, in order to avoid serious injuries. Luckily, Alex has plenty of smart tips (and sweet stories) to share for both beginners and pros. Get the x-lube and puppy pads ready. It’s time to go Fisting For Compliments.
Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: http://cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: http://sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: http://instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: http://x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: http://tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: http://instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: http://instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife Guests featured in this episode: Alex Cheves: https://www.instagram.com/badalexcheves/See https://omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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30 OCT 2025 · You’re not supposed to get horny or talk about sex in church, but Brandon Kyle Goodman is not your normal pastor. In their new off-Broadway show HEAUX CHURCH, the host of iHeart’s hit podcast “Tell Me Something Messy” reimagines church as a place for queer people to shed their religious trauma, sexual shame, and become happier, more fulfilled lovers. In this episode, Chris and Gabe talk with Goodman about how religious homophobia fucks up queer people’s access to sexual pleasure, highlighting how Brandon’s upbeat Tammy Faye Baker-style sermon - complete with talking penis, vagina and butthole puppets - offers a path to enlightenment. Heaux-llelujah!
Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: http://cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: http://sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: http://instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: http://x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: http://tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: http://instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: http://instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife Guests featured in this episode: Brandon Kyle Goodman http://instagram.com/brandonkylegoodman/ Heaux Church at Ars Nova http://arsnovanyc.com/events/heaux/See https://omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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23 OCT 2025 · Cruising has resurged over the past decade, thanks in part to PrEP and Sniffies. But its future might look like something out of a dystopian sci-fi movie, according to journalist Leo Herrera, who followed up his hit book Analog Cruising (featured in our S1 episode “Cruising 101”) with a series of articles about how rapid advancements in AI technology may impact queer sex, cruising, and relationships. In our supersized season opener, Leo, Gabe and Chris vigorously debate the nuts, bolts, ethics and controversies over soon-to-be-ubiquitous things like synthetic companions, AI porn and yes, sex robots. Freaked out by the future? You’ll definitely want to listen to this episode. Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: http://cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: http://sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: http://instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: http://x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: http://tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: http://instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: http://instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife Guests featured in this episode: Leo Herrera: http://instagram.com/herreraimages/ http://substack.com/@herrerawordsSee https://omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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21 OCT 2025 · Hungry for more Sniffies’ Cruising Confessions? Our third season is BULGING with hot and hilarious conversations with cruisers, comedians, sex scholars and porn gods. Hosts Gabe Gonzalez and Chris Patterson-Rosso dive deep into everything from sex robots to double fisting for a season that’s intimate, arousing and raw -- just the way you like it. Premiering October 23rd!
Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: http://cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: http://sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: http://instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: http://x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: http://tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: http://instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: http://instagram.com/cprgivesyoulifeSee https://omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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7 AUG 2025 · This week our hosts suit up in spandex for a wild Q&A with content creator Denzel Dixon, a prominent player in NYC’s gay wrestling fetish scene. Growing up, Denzel liked imitating WWE moves with his friends, until he realized he liked it a little too much. It wasn’t until Denzel grew up and found the website MeetFighters.com that he turned his lifelong obsession into hot, sweaty, lucrative fun. Denzel teaches Gabe and Chris all about the wrestling fetish scene and answers the most important question of all: when do we take the singlets off? Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: http://cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: http://sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: http://instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: http://x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: http://tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: http://instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: http://instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife Guests featured in this episode: Denzel Dixon: http://www.instagram.com/denzeldwrestleSee https://omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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31 JUL 2025 · Historically, pop culture has been so important to LGBTQ people, not only because we often experience sexual awakenings to figures in the media we consume, but also because so many of our favorite films, shows, and records have been created by queer people. In this episode, Gabe and Chris have a freewheeling discussion about pop culture, erotic discovery, porn parodies, cruising and Buffy slashfic, with our favorite podcaster and author: Ira Madison III. Then, a cruising confession from a horny French slut has Gabe and Chris saying “sacre bleu!” Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: http://cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: http://sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: http://instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: http://x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: http://tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: http://instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: http://instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife Guests featured in this episode: Ira Madison III: https://www.instagram.com/irathethird/See https://omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sniffies’ Cruising Confessions is back for a third season — and this time, we’re getting very, very intimate. Season 3 finds our hosts Gabe Gonzalez and Chris Patterson-Rosso chopping it...
show more
Sniffies’ Cruising Confessions is back for a third season — and this time, we’re getting very, very intimate. Season 3 finds our hosts Gabe Gonzalez and Chris Patterson-Rosso chopping it up with their favorite queer comedians, cruising experts, porn stars and pastors, sharing personal stories and practical sex advice in conversations that are equal parts hilarious, heartfelt, and hot. This season, Gabe and Chris tackle timely topics like AI, religious homophobia, disability and access, trans and non-binary approaches to cruising and sex, as well as tips for cruising smart in a shifting political landscape. Plus, the wildest, wettest, weirdest cruising confessions you’ve ever heard, from guests like Ryheim Shabazz, Jay Jurden, James Tom, Brandon Kyle Goodman, Leo Herrera, and of course, our listeners. Think you can squeeze in a third season? Just push play.
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